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My new blog: Cooking Rebel

FinishedI started a new cooking blog – CookingRebel.com. And yes, I know this has absolutely nothing to do with kinky, perverted fun… Well, food can be used for perverted, kinky fun, but my new blog won’t be addressing that.

The main gist of my blog is to:
A) Help those that know absolutely nothing about cooking and the kitchen get started.
B) Provide variations on recipes so that you can customize the recipe for you.

Provide any feedback you have there and I hope you enjoy it. Also, starting this cooking blog has helped motivate me to post here more. They may be shorter, picture-based posts, but I hope you’re still appreciating them.

 

Pumped My Cock

I got bored this morning so I pumped my cock and balls for about 30 min. Then just my cock for 45 min. Now my cock feels about the size of a Red Bull can. Now if only it stayed this way and I had a muscle boy to gag with it while I torture him.

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New Football Pants

I traded a nasty, sweat, piss and cum soaked jockstrap that I had lying around for this pair of football pants. What do y’all think?

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Become a Muscle Beast!

This image is fucking hot! And make sure you read the text. I’ve always had a fantasy of turning a boy/slave into a massive muscle freak. So fucking huge he has to change the way he does things. Mold and brainwash him into this muscle beast.

There’s more to it, but just a quick mobile post…

If you already hit the gym and are in/near SF and want to become my muscle beast, contact me ;)

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Reader Question: Bringing my boyfriend to the next level of BDSM

Every now and then I’ll get ready questions. I prefer to answer these in public because I’m sure that other people have the exact same question.

 I was wondering if you could shed some light on something for me.  My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few years now and have recently became engaged actually.  Now, I’ve always been intrigued by BDSM and have dabbled in some fetish play here and there both before this relationship and in it.  When we have he enjoyed it but I notice it seems to be more my desire than his to play the roles of Dom and sub.  I’d like some advice on how to go about bringing up that I want to take our relationship to the next level by becoming his sub bottom boy without coming off as not feeling fulfilled by our current sexual practices; I enjoy our sex and I love my man.  What are your thoughts?

I know I personally could never get into a relationship with someone vanilla. My kink desires are way too strong, but this is about you and not me.

It sounds like you’ve already talked about it some and it really depends on what you’re wanting to do with your boyfriend. I would try to find a gay erotic story that you jive with. You can find some good ones at Nifty as well as with a simple google search. Some can be a bit fantasy oriented, so look for something more “practical”. You could even write your own story.

Once you’ve found a good story, let your boyfriend read it and see what he thinks. It can give him an idea of what you’re looking for, and then you can try some or all parts of it. If the story doesn’t do anything for him, you may just have to ask him to do this for you. Which means it won’t be something regular, but maybe with time he’ll get more into it.

Another thing that can be a barrier for non-kinky guys getting into kink with their boyfriend is a fear of hurting the person. If you’re looking for the more sadistic, rough type of stuff, some boyfriends can have problems with it because they don’t want to hurt the person that they love. The first part to getting past this is explaining that you want it and it gets you off. Another thing that can help draw the boundaries between what’s “in scene” and what’s out of scene is by using props/gear like a hood, hat, armband, gas mask or anything else that can indicate when the scene starts and whet it stops.

This is going to be unique with in each relationship. It is nearly impossible to “convert” someone to kink if they are oppose or uninterested. If they are interested, be open and honest in what you are looking for.

Have a question for me? Send me a message on my contact page.

 

How to be submissive

sub·mis·sion

/səbˈmiSHən/

Noun

  1. The action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person.
  2. An act of surrendering to a hold by one’s opponent.

If you’ve read my blog much, you may know that I’m not going to actually tell you how to be submissive, but I did want to take the opportunity to talk about submission, what it is, and what it isn’t.

Many people have a perception of the Dom/sub world especially when they are first entering it. Being submissive does not mean that you’re some fem, pussy, push-over bitch. While you could be that if that’s what you desire and that’s what’s in you, that is not what you have to be.

I personally prefer a sub that is masculine, assertive, aggressive and strong – both physically and mentally. I want a guy that is submissive to me. I don’t expect him to be submissive to anyone else unless I ask him to be.

tumblr_ltyiqezFsq1r43my7o1_500There are all kinds of submissives from the alpha subs to the ones that want to be worthless, scum faggots to ones that strive to please and serve at all costs. If you’re a sub, you can fall anywhere in this spectrum and many other spectrums. Be who you are and you’ll find your match. The main key to be submissive is when you find someone you’re comfortable with and trust, give yourself to them.

 

Blackmail a boy

Every now and then I run across a boy that likes to be blackmailed in different ways to do different things. The boy you see below is such a boy. I had him over a bit ago and now he’s going to come back because if he doesn’t this full pic as well as some more information will be posted about him.

Now you’re probably like, “But Sir Cuddler, that’s really mean and how can you do such a thing?” Well, firstly this gets me hard, and the boy hard at the idea of being blackmailed, and he has consented to liking this.

And damn, doesn’t he look fucking good in that collar?

 

Black Friday/Cyber Monday Deals 2012: Kinky Sex Toys and Sex Fun

Merry Christmas! Pic by Rough Gods

Buy something fun for yourself this Black Friday. Lots of stores and studios are having deals starting today.

Sponsor Sites*

Fleshjack
25% off
Nov 22-26
Also check my post/video on how to clean a Fleshjack

JT Stockroom
Black Friday Sale (Nov 23-26) 
Thanksgiving Sale (Until Nov 26)

Mr S Leather
Free Shipping on orders of $49
Thru Dec 16th
Black Friday Newsletter 

Other Sites

665 Leather
20% off with ilove665 promo code
Thru Nov 25th

If you know of any deals not on this list, email them to me.

* Sponsor sites give me a percentage of their sales when you use these links to purchase any items. Even after these deals are over. Please help me by using these link. They are products/stores I support and have had good experiences with.

 

Finally Redesigned WildCuddler.com

The old wildcuddler.com

It’s come to the time in every blogs life where it gets a redesign. I’ll be honest, I didn’t spend tons of time on it, and that’s one thing I actually kind of love about WordPress (which this blog/site uses). You search the themes, pick one, tweak it, and you’re done.

Leave a comment or email to let me know what you think of the redesign or my blog in general. I promise I am going to start posting more again. Y’all come here for the pics AND content, and you deserve it!

 
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