Basics – Age, Location, etc.
I’m a 34 year old guy living in Austin, TX. I was born and raised in Omaha, Nebraska, the only child to a couple Navy veterans. Despite them both pushing me to pursue my interest in the arts, as well as their connection to the Navy, my parents still feigned shock when they found out I was gay. Whatevs. I am indeed 100% homo-gay with no interest in ladyparts whatsoever, including boobs, which some gays seem to like. (I don’t get that, please feel free to explain it to me.) I am monogamously coupled with an incredibly sexy guy, we’ve been together 10+ years and are totally crazy about each other.
What role do you generally take? Top/btm? Dom/sub?
I’m a dominant daddybear-top and a muscle grower. That is to say, I love growing my boy and making him get huge for me. Some might classify me as a benevolent dom, as I’m only hard on my sub in the gym and in the bedroom. The rest of the time I’m quite cuddly, but demand physical contact as much as possible.
What got you started or interested in the kink world?
I think everyone is inherently kinky, they just need to discover what their kink is. For us, the muscle grower thing emerged over time as we discovered how mutually crank-turning it is.
Additionally, I appreciate the whimsy of BDSM. Dan Savage calls is “cops and robbers” for grown-ups, and that’s really what I dig about it. It’s creative play with fucking, what could be better than that?
What are you most into?
Muscle growth (see above), feats of strength, body contact, tickle torture, light-to-medium bondage, sex in public, nipple play, flex play, submission wrestling, a little food/sensation play – but not to the point of sploshing.
What do you hope to be able to contribute to Cuddling on the Wild Side?
I want to lend a whimsical and comedic angle to kink. Sometimes I worry that what scares off many prospective kinksters is that the whole world of kink can take itself so seriously, and that can make it difficult to “buy in.” My goal will be to try to show people the fun & free-wheeling side of kink.
Bound Gods, Anything with Zeb Atlas, Caesar, Matthew Rush, et al. And various and sundry offerings from Raging Stallion & COLT. Also, I like a well-intentioned Xtube post. Even as goofy as this. (Link NSFW, obviously.) You have to admit, it’s a kooky lark when you’re digging out the old action figures to make some indie porn.
What else should everyone know about you?
I’m actually a reasonably nice guy, once you get past the snark.