My boyfriend and I are very kinky, but don’t always like to let all of our friends know it, especially being that many of his friends are also business clients. So, we often have to find ways to hide the kink. One example is when he wears his chain collar, he’ll just wear it under his shirt, but I also leave him a key in case he needs to take it off.
Something I bought recently that highlights this effect is a simple wristband, but by unbuckling one strap giving it a quick turn it becomes a bondage device for the wrist that can be used in front and behind. The sales clerk at the store I bought it from called it something like “Black Tie Bondage”. It would be awesome to find/create more products like this. There is also a little excitement in being out with your friends knowing that they are looking at something that is often taboo, yet it looks very normal.
One other thing we are doing is creating a little “den-geon” out of his garage he doesn’t use for cars any more. The room is going to be a basic TV room with a vary masculine feel to it, but designed specifically for kink play. That means the floor is going to be something easy to clean, we are thinking stained and sealed concrete. The furniture is going to be light-weight so we can easily move it to the side. The ceiling is going to have exposed beams that we are going to cover with eye bolts all over the whole room for hanging a sling or used for restraints. One last thing is we’re going to have a bookshelf with a locked cabinet as part of it specifically for storing toys such as flogs, rope, and our other implements of torture.
I hope to find and create more of these items and share them with you. It’s a great way to add a little spice to your sex life, whether you go this extreme or just looking for a couple ideas. Let me know what you have done.