Cuddling on the
Wild Side

If you’ve never the comic series Adam and Andy, it’s pretty damn good. I even bought the print book about a month back. While the comic may not be very kinky, it still very well portrays a fun, but real gay life.

Found this over at Derek and Romaine from OutQ on Sirius 109 and XM 98 from 5-9CST. Definitely check them out if you have Sirius or XM.

Sometimes amazingly good sex toys go bad! Yesterday I got a funny ass email from a listener who wanted to share a crazy sex toys story with me.

He wrote:

Hi Romaine,

I wanted to let you know that because of your show I bought a Fun Factory Delight Vibrator and it’s been absolutely fantastic. I even bought one for a friend for his birthday. BUT, I wanted to let you know also that today I walked back into my cloud-filled bedroom today and saw that while it was in it’s charging case, it EXPLODED, flew out of the case and burned my carpet. I’m just glad I was here. I’m not sure if you have one, but I was letting people know because I’d hate for someone to lose their house or something over a vibrator. I took pictures of it all if you care to see it.

Signed,

A Loyal Listener

Check out the Pictures!!!

I love my Fun Factory toys. I own many including the toy in these pictures. I’m a little shocked that a toy could melt down like this but I guess any electronic device with a rechargeable battery has this capability. Needless, to say this melt down has not changed my opinion of my Fun factory toys. I still think that this company puts tireless hours of work into designing the highest quality toys on the market today.

Having said that…HOLY SHIT!!! Look at that toy! This is a crazy story and I kind of love it. Can you imagine your house burning down because of your sex toy?!?! Picture the headlines in the local paper! What would the church say? LMFAO I love this story but I feel bad about the loss of the sex toy and the burned carpet. But the listener was right better a burned carpet then a burned “carpet” while using the thing!

-Romaine

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For all you SF kinksters, check this out.

Daddies, boys, Doms, subs, Tops, bottoms

STOP AIDS Project is hitting the streets again with several new activities and events. We are going where the men meet and want you with us.

Safe, Sane and Consensual have been hallmark values in the leather BD/SM community for decades. STOP AIDS Project is building a team of fetish, kink and leather men to support these values and promote our community’s health and want you with us.

Play parties, workshops on leather BD/SM, events, media campaigns, and that’s just for starters.

If you want to meet new people, do fun activities, get involved in great events, or want to know more about what is coming up, contact us.

Contact: Jorge Vieto 415.575.0150  ext 208
or Email for more information.

Play Safe. Make A Difference. Get Involved. Have Fun.

[source via Twisted Ramblings]

The article below reminds me of why you should be careful with any drugs random strangers give you. Also, want to give a warning out to avoid taking poppers and viagra during the same period of time. It can cause you to die from a drop in blood pressure because they are both designed to expand your blood vessels.

Guys, if you’re having trouble with dysfunction, please don’t be an idiot and buy bootleg erectile dysfunction drugs online. Why?

Because in the last five months, THREE men from Singapore have slipped into a coma after taking knockoff drugs to help them in the bedroom and FOUR others have died.

So what are some of the medications you SHOULD NOT take?

• Zhong Hua Niu Bian
• Power One Walnut
• Santi Bovine Penis Erecting Capsule

[From UK Medix Health News via Shadow of My Life]

I wouldn’t mind watching how this unfolds. Throw in a little kink and it would make it all that much better.

It’s always nice when you can find some marines helping out one-another. These marines just do it in a slightly hot and naughty way… check it out

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RNIlPu27PEo[/youtube]

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I found this clip on the Derek and Romaine website. They are the awesome hosts of a show on OutQ, a satellite radio show on Siries 109 and XM 98. If you have either, you gotta check them out. They are awesome and funny!

No matter what kind of kinks you are into, dirty talk is an essential part of any bedroom activities (even vanilla!) As a sub, we get our sexual energy from the Dom. So how we “perform” can very well be determined by how the Dom talks to us. Unfortunately, for many people who just start to explore the kink world or are meeting up with complete strangers, it’s difficult to get over the initial embarrassment of talking dirty.

If there is a pair of words that you absolutely need to learn before you start your kink, they will have to be “Sir” and “boy”.

Like many naturally submissive guys, I love being talked down to and there are no other words that can get to my immediately attention than the word “boy”. There is just something naturally degrading about the word. It instantly establishes a hierarchy between the user and the receiver and it is just intimate enough that the receiver feels there is a tiny bit of “love” (or lust) in between. Every time my Master uses the term (which he probably use it 70% even in our “normal” conversations) he reminds and reassures me that I am his property, that he is the Master and I am only good when being told that I am. In a strange way, it’s a comforting word for me and for other subs that I have talked to. In return, by calling my Master “Sir”, I honor his presence and he is the center of my attention.

For beginners who wants to try dirty talks, a great way to start is to verbalize or make a question of the things that you are about to do. For example, when you are about to fuck, instead of just flat staring at each other, try adding some conversational pieces while you are lubing up the condom, like “I’m getting ready to put this cock in you, boy.” And when you’re ready, try a suggestive question like “do you want this meat, boy?” or even “tell me what you want me to do? Tell me how bad you want it.” This will instantly turn all those awkward waiting moments to be foreplay. In times, you will look forward to the talks as much as the sex.

As for subs who likes to take a little bit of control (which you know will just become a humiliation at the end), I suggest start the dirty talk by asking for permissions. Asking whether you can get something from your Master can be arousing for the Master as for yourself. Since my Master will not allow me to touch any part of him without his permission, I have to verbalize almost all my actions. Of course, the fun part is when you start to get denied. It becomes extremely degrading for a sub when he has to ask for permission to do things that he really wants to do (ie: permission to cum or to suck) and things that he hates to happen (ie: permission to be spanked or to lick the floor).

These are just some very basic stuff that are easy to start and hopefully can allow you and your partner to get over the awkwardness of dirty talking. Don’t forget boys, we are not just all butt fucking machines, let’s put some class and dialogues into the sex.

I am starting a new series called Fringe Fetishes. These are going to be things that are even on the outside of the many crazy fetishes I know about. These are going to mostly be things that I have no clue how you would find someone else into them. Remember though, these people are not freaks. They are just into some of the more unusual things. So embrace the kink culture and the diversity within it. If you run across any other Fringe Fetishes, shoot me an email.

I’m going to begin this series with a Craigs List ad that @myriadian on Twitter came across.

any balloon fetish guy on the area?

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Reply to: pers-1021552232@craigslist.org ^[?]
Date: 2009-02-05, 1:20AM EST

here latino with balloon fetish ,looking for similar,we can make a group in dc area contact me with your pics and experience with balloons,we can meet to blow up big balloons together and more.

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I’ve warned about being careful who you play with. The news story below just goes to show that you really need to be careful who you bring home, and also what expectations there are. If things get too out of control, you can always call the police. Better to have to deal with them than jail for a couple years.

Here is yet another example of why it’s a bad idea to have group sex with complete weirdos.

In July of 2007, 49-year-old Steven Bartley of Mooloolaba, Australia, and his unidentified boyfriend went to a local bar got hammered and met 34-year-old Christopher Jones and his unidentified male friend

Anyway, somehow the group decided to go back to Steven’s apartment to have a gang bang with Steven’s boyfriend. But once they got back to his place, Steven smoked some weed and passed out while his boyfriend messed around with Christopher.

That was all good and fine. But when Christopher’s friend tried to join in on the fun, Steven’s boyfriend got annoyed. So he woke Steven up and told the guys to leave.

According to court documents, Christopher told Steven, “I’m not leaving until my friend has sex with your boyfriend.” So Steven shoved Christopher out the door and over the balcony railing.

Christopher fell 12 feet before landing on the concrete and suffering a fractured skull. He was rushed to the hospital and Steven was arrested.

Yesterday, Steven pleaded guilty to committing one count of grievous bodily harm and was sentenced to two-and-a-half years in prison. [Source]

Camouflage CB6000

The famous chastity device creators over at CB-2000 have released another model in their CB6000 line. This is the 2nd “designer” model, the first being the Wood Grain Finish I mentioned a week ago. This is the camouflage finish that is great for all the military lovers out there. They advertise that no two will look the same. This is likely because the material they apply on these will never match up. Which makes me also wonder if there are seams where the pattern meets.

Let's lock up this boy. I'll keep the key.

I like the look of this one much better and could actually see myself putting this on a boy. I just wonder if they are going to come out with designer locks to go on these designer chastity devices because I’m not a fan of how they would look now. This is great for any Dom that wants to have some cum denial fun with his boy, especially during some military role playing.

I’m working on adding more kink-related news to the blog. If you happen to know of any good sources, please let me know.

Are you in an HIV pos/neg relationship? It looks like things might not be as bad for you as you may have thought. Basically if you are HIV-negative and giving your HIV-positive partner oral sex, you are helping to build antibodies to his specific virus.

The study, published in the (expensive, subscription only) AIDS journal and helpfully summarised by Aidsmap suggests that men who give lots of blow jobs to their HIV-positive partners develop antibodies specific to that partner’s virus, protecting themselves against infection. The more virus their partner has kicking around in their semen, the higher the concentration of specific antibodies, and the protection seems to last for quite a while too. None of the men became infected over the course of the study, even though their partners were not all on treatment. [source]

Does this mean go have all types of risky activities with him – NO. At least if there is an accident, you’ll be a little safer. This also doesn’t mean that oral sex is 100% safe either. So go ahead and know that with every thrust of his cock into your mouth, you might be building up some antibodies. Be Safe!

Editor’s Warning: This is definitely not for beginners and should only be done with experienced people.

I’m feeling anxious, nervous and really excited. It is my first time in this dungeon space and I haven’t previously played very hard with the Top I’m here with. Yet I’ve agreed to let him use a single tail snake whip on me tonight. Despite the conventional wisdom that says man cannot fly, I am also hoping to Fly tonight. I’m being led through a large dungeon play space that is packed with many very hot leather-clad and naked men engaged in advanced BDSM scenes: floggings, bondage, breath control, needle play, fisting, you name it. The Top I’m with directs me to the far end of the room where a large St. Andrews cross is standing in the corner. He tells me to strip naked.

Despite the fact that I do not have a finely honed gym body (to say the least), I comply with his request immediately and without a lot of nervous stress, because being naked in a room with 40 other men is now the least of my angst. I’m more concerned at this point with not humiliating myself, not embarrassing my Top and generally making sure I’m not in over my head.

St Andrew's Cross

At my Top’s direction I stand facing the cross and the corner, with my back to him. He asks if I would like my wrists and ankles restrained to the cross and I explain that I prefer no restraints. He begins warming up by throwing the whip, but not making direct contact with me. I can hear it whistle right before cracking as it breaks the sound barrier. I can also feel the slight air movement near my back. It’s only a couple of inches away now. I am ready to feel it. And then it happens – the first kiss of the whip against my back. The pain is sharp and stinging. I breathe through the pain and vocally grunt to help process it. He continues building the strokes in a relatively steady rhythm and in a classic V pattern on my back. He builds slowly, ramping to harder lashes with longer contact stripes. By ramping the pain slowly and not “burning his dinner” I am keeping pace with the pain he’s inflicting and processing it with the help of aggressive breathing, loud grunting and tons of sweat. I am about ready to Fly.

So what exactly is “flying?”

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