Cuddling on the
Wild Side

If you’re looking for a dirty, nasty, sex-filled post, you better stop reading now. I’m still going to be in SF for one more night, but staying with a friend (thanks Buck/PC) in SSF and I don’t think it’s going to be sex-filled.

 

I shared the weekend with my good friend Shane from Dallas. He used to live in Austin, but ran away. We went down to the Castro and grabbed some dinner at Firewood. It’s a decent place and almost every SF local will mention it for dinner in the Castro. After dinner we met up with Buck, PC and some of their friends at 440/Daddies to relax and catch up.

After a quick costume change back in our hotel, the Carriage Inn (very nice hotel – I’d recommend it), we headed to Chaps II because the line for Powerhouse was like 2 blocks long. I might have made out with a couple guys and gotten my cock sucked a little, but still just went back to the hotel with my friend Shane.

Saturday included breakfast at Mel’s Dinner, then I went off the the BigMuscle(Bears) party. It’s my favorite party of the weekend usually because it’s in the afternoon, people haven’t gotten high on the drugs yet, and there are tons of hot guys that are nice. I met Andy, one of the owners of BM/BMB. He was very nice.

I also did meet a nice little kinky muscle stud at the party that I brought back to my hotel. We played around a bit, but it was cut short because my roommate came back to the room. He was a really nice guy too. If I lived in SF, I definitely would have enjoyed spending some more time with him. Luckily I did see him a couple more times throughout the weekend.

That night I went to Magnitude, which is split between a dance/circuit party and a sex party. It was alright, but people weren’t very friendly. I actually found the same was true of the Real Bad party Sunday night. People seemed to be very focused on their friends, or getting some sex. There was no room to meet new people.

People at the Folsom Street Fair on Sunday were very friendly though. It was a great time, filled with so many friends from all around the world, and also some space to meet new friends. There’s always the freaks out there wearing something crazy, but it’s what makes Folsom fun, and we’re all crazy in our own way.

I didn’t see too much naughty stuff going on, maybe some cock sucking, but that’s it. There were also reports of a guy jacking off one of the roofs which I’ve seen in past years. The music on the different stages was pretty good this year. Normally there are some crazy bands that are only at Folsom because they’re gay, but this year was pretty good.

After the street fair and some food we went to the Real Bad party which I already mentioned. It’s pretty strictly a leather circuit party. There’s some fondling that goes on, but that’s about it. I only stayed a couple hours, then went back to the hotel and crashed.

Here we are at today… just chilling and relaxing after the weekend. Hung out with Moby and Shane most of the afternoon.

The whole weekend was nice. It was great to see so many people, including known and unknown followers of my blog and Twitter.

WildCuddler The one thing I did decide this weekend is that I really want to get a tattoo. Now I just need to figure out what. Any suggestions?

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WildCuddler Do fish oil pills make your cum taste nasty?

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We all generally have a physical type that is our ideal partner, whether just for a hook-up or a relationship. When you look in the mirror, are you attracted to yourself or is it nothing like what you’re attracted to? Are you trying to get there, is it something that’s impossible to achieve because of height or body hair limitations, or is it your complete opposite you like?

Share your thoughts in the comment section. I’m going to do a follow-up with the results from this poll.

The suggestion for this poll came from one of my readers. Thanks! If you have a suggestion for a poll, article or anything… let me know.

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Check out this awesome article from Scientific America. It’s a real study looking at the self-identified labels and gay men.

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People who derive more pleasure (or perhaps suffer less anxiety or discomfort) from acting as the insertive partner are referred to colloquially as “tops,” whereas those who have a clear preference for serving as the receptive partner are commonly known as “bottoms.” There are plenty of other descriptive slang terms for this gay male dichotomy as well, some repeatable (“pitchers vs. catchers,” “active vs. passive,” “dominant vs. submissive”) and others not—well, not for Scientific American , anyway.

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I’m going to be in San Fransisco for Folsom next Friday, September 25th till the 28th for the Folsom Street Fair. This will be my 3rd Folsom, so let me know if you need any tips and let me know if you’re going to be there. Always love to meet other kinksters. I also plan to go to the Big Muscle party, the Magnitude party and the Real Bad party.

Shoot me an email or leave a comment if you’ll be there.

Here’s some pics from Folsom 2008.

Back in July I posted a poll to find out how many of my visitors used poppers and what they thought of them. About 28% of the people used poppers frequently. I was fairly pleased with how few people didn’t know what poppers are. If you still don’t know, just hold on. Below are the results from the survey.

Poppers can be a very tricky subject with people and it’s never something you want to force on a person without talking to them about it first. Although, with consent, forced poppers can be VERY hot. I actually did poppers when I lost my virginity. I went to a hotel with 2 fucking amazing muscle beasts and during the course of play, they gave me some poppers. At the time I had no clue what they were, but I did as they suggested, and it allowed them to double fuck me. Which was very hot. Looking back on it, I don’t have any regrets, but I wish I had known what I knew now.

For those of you who don’t know what poppers are, they are different types of Nitrites – frequently amyl, butyl, and isobutyl. They come in a small brown bottle like shown above and are inhaled, usually through the nose. It causes the blood vessels to dilate, heart beat increases and blood rushes to the brain. It also relaxes your muscles, specifically the sphincter, making anal sex, fisting, or whatever ass play you kinky fuckers do much easier.

If you have any medical conditions, especially blood pressure related, please research the effects even more before using. The best suggestion would be to talk to a knowledgeable doctor. There is also concern when mixed with other drugs that decrease your blood pressure such as Viagra. I’ve heard of reported stories of people dying or ending up in the hospital because of this combination.

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