Check out this awesome article from Scientific America. It’s a real study looking at the self-identified labels and gay men.
Excerpt:
People who derive more pleasure (or perhaps suffer less anxiety or discomfort) from acting as the insertive partner are referred to colloquially as “tops,” whereas those who have a clear preference for serving as the receptive partner are commonly known as “bottoms.” There are plenty of other descriptive slang terms for this gay male dichotomy as well, some repeatable (“pitchers vs. catchers,” “active vs. passive,” “dominant vs. submissive”) and others not—well, not for Scientific American , anyway.
haha science trying to figure us out. versatile is my deal 🙂 btw cool boots u bought the other day!!!