October, 2009 | Cuddling on the Wild Side

You asked your questions, now I answered: Part 2

Check out Part 1 of the answers.

What’s your favorite sex toy, gear, and fetish?

How about you try to make me choose my favorite child too. I’m not sure this really counts as a sex toy, but one of my favorite things to use is Icy Hot on a sub’s balls. Love to put it on, with their permission, then just watch them squirm and beg for me to take it off. I might even let them jack off using the Icy Hot if they want.

The harness shown to the right is my favorite piece of gear, especially when I wear it with just a jockstrap and some boots. Gear hasn’t been something I’ve incorporated into sex, but it is definitely something that will get me to go after a guy.

I hinted to one of my favorite fetishes above… CBT – Cock and Ball Torture. I love to play with a sub’s balls and watch him squirm. For a lot of guys it’s something they’ve never done before too, making it more fun. That’s generally my favorite fetish to do, but it really depends on the chemistry between me and the sub.

Your favorite cum control fantasy scene (any duration)

I find chastity to be insanely hot, although I’ve never done it yet. I’d love to find a hot muscle guy to lock up, but then make a game out of it. Have him come over every 4-7 days for the possibility of release from the chastity. When he comes, he’ll roll 2 dice or pick a card from a deck. If it matches what I had previously selected, he’ll get to cum. If not, I may let him out and edge him for a bit, but not actually let him cum. Then once I’m all done, whether I let him cum or not, he gets locked back up in the chastity.

Are you into watersports and have you done porn if so where can I find it?

I’ll do watersports (aka Golden Showers, pissing on/in someone), but it’s not something I’ll look for. If I did find my ideal submissive partner, it would likely become a regular part of what we would do though.

As for porn, nope. I don’t know of any porn that I’m in.

If you have any other questions, feel free to email me.

You asked your questions, now I answered: Part 1

I put myself out there and let you guys ask me any question you wanted, and I’d answer it honestly. You can still ask me anything too.

This is part 1, look for more parts coming soon.

Note: I think that answered your questions. If not, ask something more specific.

Do you ever bottom or are you only a top? If you never bottom, why not?

A pic from Folsom 2009 showing off my legs and everything.

I lean towards top, but I wouldn’t really say I’m a top. I tell people I’m a top because trying to explain that you can have sex without fucking is just too much work. I actually don’t fuck too much. I mostly just like to be Dominant.

It’s been almost 2 years since I’ve bottomed. When I first started having sex 3 years ago, I was pretty much only a bottom because guys like my beefy, bubble butt. And really, it doesn’t take that much work to bottom. I’ve learned more about what I like since then, and getting fucked doesn’t really do much for me. If I found the perfect guy that was a Dom top, I’d probably fall into the sub/bottom role, but it’s not something I’m looking for and I’m not sure the guy exists.

Do you consider yourself sexy or average? What is do you consider your best physical attribute?

Here's a snap of my ass.

Fuck yeah I consider myself sexy. I work hard at the gym, try to eat healthy and don’t do drugs or drink to take care of myself and body. To be honest though, it’s self-confidence that makes me feel sexy. Am I perfection I can achieve… hell no, but I’m happy with my body how it is, and I know what I what to do next to get me where I want to be some day.

As for my best physical attribute, I’d say it’s my legs/ass. I never actually realized I had big legs and a nice bubble butt till I started going to gay bars and people told me. So, pretty much I was ignorant of my nice legs/ass I got from lucky genetics.

What fascinates you most about men?

The one thing that I really love about men, as regular followers probably know, is nice thick muscle. I love the way it looks on a guy. I don’t know exactly what it is, maybe it’s the masculinity, just the solidness, or the idea that someone like that offers a sense of protection. After that, I love a nice fuzzy submissive guy that likes it real rough.

Do you have a favorite city you would like to live or visit?

Fisherman's Wharf in SF

One of my favorite cities so far is San Francisco. I think I could definitely see myself living there some time. It’s a city filled with masculine, kinky men. How could I not love that? Chicago is another city I’ve been to I could see myself possibly living in, but I grew up in Minneapolis and don’t want to go back to the cold right now.

There are a couple cities I haven’t been to and really want to. On my list are currently, Las Vegas, New York, and Ft Lauderdale/Miami. Luckily I’ll be going to Vegas in Jan with some amazing friends. No plans right now to do NYC or FtL, but hopefully soon.

Halloween Edition #CommandoFriday Pics – October 30 (NSFW)

Let’s see some of you boys going commando in your Halloween costumes.

Check back throughout the day and next week. As more people post them, they will automatically appear here. This will post any pics that have been posted with the #commandofriday tag on twitter. Also check out CommandoFriday on Twitter. Let me know if you have any other requests/suggestions.

Also, check out the most recent poll about hooking up and finding dates.