Cuddling on the
Wild Side

Check out Part 1 of the answers.

What’s your favorite sex toy, gear, and fetish?

How about you try to make me choose my favorite child too. I’m not sure this really counts as a sex toy, but one of my favorite things to use is Icy Hot on a sub’s balls. Love to put it on, with their permission, then just watch them squirm and beg for me to take it off. I might even let them jack off using the Icy Hot if they want.

The harness shown to the right is my favorite piece of gear, especially when I wear it with just a jockstrap and some boots. Gear hasn’t been something I’ve incorporated into sex, but it is definitely something that will get me to go after a guy.

I hinted to one of my favorite fetishes above… CBT – Cock and Ball Torture. I love to play with a sub’s balls and watch him squirm. For a lot of guys it’s something they’ve never done before too, making it more fun. That’s generally my favorite fetish to do, but it really depends on the chemistry between me and the sub.

Your favorite cum control fantasy scene (any duration)

I find chastity to be insanely hot, although I’ve never done it yet. I’d love to find a hot muscle guy to lock up, but then make a game out of it. Have him come over every 4-7 days for the possibility of release from the chastity. When he comes, he’ll roll 2 dice or pick a card from a deck. If it matches what I had previously selected, he’ll get to cum. If not, I may let him out and edge him for a bit, but not actually let him cum. Then once I’m all done, whether I let him cum or not, he gets locked back up in the chastity.

Are you into watersports and have you done porn if so where can I find it?

I’ll do watersports (aka Golden Showers, pissing on/in someone), but it’s not something I’ll look for. If I did find my ideal submissive partner, it would likely become a regular part of what we would do though.

As for porn, nope. I don’t know of any porn that I’m in.

If you have any other questions, feel free to email me.

I put myself out there and let you guys ask me any question you wanted, and I’d answer it honestly. You can still ask me anything too.

This is part 1, look for more parts coming soon.

Note: I think that answered your questions. If not, ask something more specific.

Do you ever bottom or are you only a top? If you never bottom, why not?

A pic from Folsom 2009 showing off my legs and everything.

I lean towards top, but I wouldn’t really say I’m a top. I tell people I’m a top because trying to explain that you can have sex without fucking is just too much work. I actually don’t fuck too much. I mostly just like to be Dominant.

It’s been almost 2 years since I’ve bottomed. When I first started having sex 3 years ago, I was pretty much only a bottom because guys like my beefy, bubble butt. And really, it doesn’t take that much work to bottom. I’ve learned more about what I like since then, and getting fucked doesn’t really do much for me. If I found the perfect guy that was a Dom top, I’d probably fall into the sub/bottom role, but it’s not something I’m looking for and I’m not sure the guy exists.

Do you consider yourself sexy or average? What is do you consider your best physical attribute?

Here's a snap of my ass.

Fuck yeah I consider myself sexy. I work hard at the gym, try to eat healthy and don’t do drugs or drink to take care of myself and body. To be honest though, it’s self-confidence that makes me feel sexy. Am I perfection I can achieve… hell no, but I’m happy with my body how it is, and I know what I what to do next to get me where I want to be some day.

As for my best physical attribute, I’d say it’s my legs/ass. I never actually realized I had big legs and a nice bubble butt till I started going to gay bars and people told me. So, pretty much I was ignorant of my nice legs/ass I got from lucky genetics.

What fascinates you most about men?

The one thing that I really love about men, as regular followers probably know, is nice thick muscle. I love the way it looks on a guy. I don’t know exactly what it is, maybe it’s the masculinity,  just the solidness, or the idea that someone like that offers a sense of protection. After that, I love a nice fuzzy submissive guy that likes it real rough.

Do you have a favorite city you would like to live or visit?

Fisherman's Wharf in SF

One of my favorite cities so far is San Francisco. I think I could definitely see myself living there some time. It’s a city filled with masculine, kinky men. How could I not love that? Chicago is another city I’ve been to I could see myself possibly living in, but I grew up in Minneapolis and don’t want to go back to the cold right now.

There are a couple cities I haven’t been to and really want to. On my list are currently, Las Vegas, New York, and Ft Lauderdale/Miami. Luckily I’ll be going to Vegas in Jan with some amazing friends. No plans right now to do NYC or FtL, but hopefully soon.

Let’s see some of you boys going commando in your Halloween costumes.

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WildCuddler You know, I think that my time at the gym has been taking priority over hookups and sex. Is that fucked up or not?

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WildCuddler I love when a guys profile says they are “only a top”, but they message me saying they’d “give up their ass for me”. Confused boys….

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It’s your time to ask me a question about anything… sexual or otherwise. Maybe you want to know more about me or more about some topic.

Send me an email or leave a comment and I’ll answer it.

WildCuddler Is it weird to have multiple sexual encounters and chatting with someone without ever being 100% sure of their name?

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He needs a gag in his mouth, but he’s still hot…

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The internet is a fad that doesn’t seem to have passed yet. My guess is that it’s here to stay. Now I wasn’t in the bars before the internet became popular, but I hear they were a much different place. Now if you want to hook-up, you just go online. I know it’s possible to meet guys online for more than just a hook-up.

I’m wondering what sites y’all like to use to meet people or hook-up. Do you tend to go to certain sites for certain things?

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WildCuddler Why are people more willing to send out a cock pic than a shirtless chest pic?

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Hey everyone,

It looks like everything with the blog is fully working now. My host has been pretty great for the 7 yrs I’ve had them. I’d still highly recommend them, especially for their low prices, despite this outage. It just reminds me that I need to make sure I have good, complete backups of all my files.

Other than a little work on that, this weekend I finally got some real action for the first time in over a month. It was with a guy that I’d been chatting with on Grindr for about a week now. We’d chatted before somewhere, but not sure what happened back then. I just know he was in my Yahoo Messenger already.

He’s a hot guy that’s ready to explore his submissive side, and I’m willing to help him. I told him, he has the easy job… just do what he’s told. He hadn’t been feeling well, and had to cancel. It frustrated me a little, but eventually he was feeling well enough to stop over to meet and a little bit of fun.

Being he wasn’t at 100% and it was late, so I was tired, we didn’t do too much. Just some nip and ball torture, and skull fucking. I also locked my chain collar on his neck, which looked great and he was sad when I took it off him. I ended up shooting a nice big 4 day load down his throat, but being that he was a bad boy and made me wait to meet, I didn’t let him blow.

Once we were all done though, he dropped the bombshell on me… he has a boyfriend. He seems like a great guy, that I would definitely consider dating, but looks like that opportunity isn’t there any more. All of the good, hot guys always seem to already have men. I’m fine being single, but the guys I am interested in dating just aren’t available.

He apparently felt like it was my job to ask the question based on the way he told me. I feel more like it’s his job to disclose that if it’s going to cause some problems. He’s definitely a nice guy, and very obedient. I’ll definitely be meeting up with him again, despite the BF thing.

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My web host, and subsequently me, got hacked recently, displaying some pro Saudi Arabai message. I’m trying to get everything resolved and fixed from this, but it’s taking some time and I’m having to work with my web host on some things.

As of right now, most things seem to be working, except you can’t click on any internal links. Let me know if you find any other problems.

Thanks for the patience!

We all have a physical type that would be our Prince Charming. I’ve heard people say they don’t, but I think they are just lying to themselves. There’s a physical type that you like above the rest. I’m not saying you might not like other types, but there is a type that you likely consider ideal.

Recently I did a poll, as suggested by one of you guys, to find out if you are your own ideal type. Now, when I wrote the poll, it uses a lot of stereotypes, generalities and focuses entirely on looks. We’re all a little shallow… it’s alright to admit it.

Not my perfect ideal type, but he's pretty good.

My ideal type is a big thick muscle-head/bodybuilder/powerlifter, dark hair, some body and facial hair, buzzed head, about 5′10 – 6′ tall, around 280 lbs, couple of tattoos and a nice filled out face (not bony). Does that mean if you’re not him,  I’d turn you away… hell no. But if I could build my perfect man, he’d have those features.

As you can see, I’m not that, but you can bet that I’m trying my best to get there. Well, except for the height, I like my guys a little bit shorter than me. It makes for better cuddling.

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The split on the poll was actually pretty close to what I would have guessed with most people trying to become their ideal type, but not there yet – that includes me.

There are also those that have no interest in becoming their ideal type. For example you have chub and twink chasers, where maybe one guy is my ideal type, but his ideal type is a smooth, twink that weighs 120 lbs. I’m not sure if I’ll ever truly understand this, but if it makes them happy… go for it.

Granted, we do all have an ideal type, but don’t spend your whole life searching for that guy. You’ll likely never find him. Just find guys that make you happy and make your life feel more enjoyable. They should be there to enhance your life, not fill a need of yours. If you’re not happy with yourself first, you’ll never truly be happy with a guy. Spend some time and think about who you are and what you really need/want out of life, go get then, then start to think about finding a man. Until then, you really need to learn how to be single and enjoy it. I know it does suck some times, I’m there with you, but look for the good times.