WildCuddler This is the worst spam chat msg ever – “i’m rather busy but if you care to drop me a line to say hello i’ll happily reply.”
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Now, if all those boys are lined up knocking on your door to have sex… you better have an orgy, or at least send the others to my place while you’re working on the first one.
I was looking through some profiles, and I’ve seen this like a million times – “if you have (some trait), step to the front of the line.” Do you really have a line?? Because I sure as hell know I don’t have any line of guys waiting to have sex with me that I’m interested in.
Also, are you really ever going to even let the guys at the “back” of the line get in the door? Pretty sure if I lined up the type of guys and things I like in a guy, I probably wouldn’t even touch anything past the first 10%.
Tell people what you like, but don’t make them feel like they are taking a number at a service counter. A) It makes you look like a whore. B) It belittles them and turns them into more of an object. I know some guys like that, but wait till they message you first.
WildCuddler The word “toned” is kind of a turn-off when I see it in profiles. Sorry toned boys.
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It’s been a while since I’ve picked up The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren, and to be honest, I never finished it. It’s time to start another book though. This book is a very good introductory book for both Doms and subs. It is written from a straight perspective, but does include some gay material too (not much though). Also, the main author is a Dominant male with some parts written by his submissive wife. So it is generally more geared towards those roles.
They cover everything from the psychology of BDSM to how to do a scene to different toys and gear. There’s even a section in the book that talks about meeting other Doms and subs and the dance that occurs when trying to find your match.
It’s a great book to get different ideas from if you have some experience. I really enjoyed the Mindfuck section. If you’re brand new to it all and taking things slow, it’s a good book to see what you can expect.
I’d recommend borrowing this book if you could. If not, it’s worth buying.
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WildCuddler Profile Peeve #39: People that contradict themselves in their own profile. So, you are really both 5’10 and 6’0???
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WildCuddler i’m not everyone’s cup of kink…. and i’m fine with that
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One of the main reasons I started WildCuddler.com was to share my knowledge and experiences to help educate my readers and make the kink/bdsm world a little less scary. I can share all my knowledge with you, but I’m also looking for guest writers that would be willing to impart your knowledge, stories, advice, etc on the readers.
I’m looking for anything including: how-to, advice, experiences, fiction and non-fiction stories, product reviews, artwork, or anything else kink, bdsm or sex related.
If you already have your own blog, and would be interested in doing some cross posting – let me know. You could repost one of your articles here and/or I could repost one of mine on your blog.
Any guest writers will definitely be given credit and can be linked to your blog, etc. Or, if you just want to remain anonymous (some people get off on that), we can do that too.
Contact me if you’re interested!
Thanks!
..Chris
WildCuddler Profile Peeve #38: Not having any photos yourself, then asking me to send more than the 5 I already have there.
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