I got a buffet of meat laid out and it’s muscle bears everywhere. Have a taste and enjoy!
Even as a kid, especially when I was in a comfortable place (physical or not), I would frequently just start dancing. It may have just looked like bobbing back and forth to others, but it was dancing to me. The best part is that there didn’t even have to be music playing. I would just enjoy life and start dancing.
It’s more rare I’ll dance without music now-a-days, but you’ll frequently see me busting a move at the bar standing against the wall or even sometimes out on the dance floor. Don’t start thinking that any chemicals or alcohol are involved in this either. I’m sure if I really wanted to, or cared about what other people thought, I could stop myself. I don’t care what other people think though. I’m having a good time.
Part of this is I have enough confidence to do it. I don’t have to be drunk to get on the dance floor, or approach the guy. Maybe you need to dig down deep in yourself, but when you stop caring what other people think and stop caring if you “fail”, you’ll get things done and enjoy yourself.
Yeah, if you go up and talk to a guy, he may be an asshole and ignore you, but he may also start talking to you. I like to have eye contact first, and that’s one of my barriers. Once I have that though, he’s totally fair game.
Something I’ve come to learn is how fucking sexy confidence truly is. Don’t be timid about what you want, or what you are interested in. Have the confidence to do what you want. You really can’t expect someone else to believe in you, when you don’t even believe in yourself. Find your true self, and bring that person out.
With some of the things kinky fuckers do, it may seem like there is a fine line between psycho and just plain kinky, but there’s really not. This guy is definitely not a kinky fucker…
BEIJING, April 21 (AFP) – A gay singer in China has been arrested for murder after he allegedly killed six men in elaborate, sado-masochistic sex games that involved hanging his victims, a state-linked newspaper reported.
Zhou Youping, a singer in bars in the central province of Hunan, posted personal ads on gay websites seeking people willing to travel to his home to play his “slave,” the Sanxiang City Express said.
He sought partners willing to play erotic asphyxiation games — the intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for sexual arousal — and met them in hotels in the provincial capital Changsha.
“At first I wanted them to be my ‘slave’. But when they met me they wanted money or had special requests,” Zhou was quoted as saying in the newspaper, which belongs to the state-run Hunan Daily Newspaper Group, on Tuesday.
“I didn’t like that and wanted to use the hanging asphyxiation method to kill them.”
He killed his first victim in October last year after discovering the man, from the northwestern province of Gansu, was HIV-positive. He hung him as part of a sex game then left him to die.
Zhou, who is in his thirties, then killed another five men. At least two other intended victims managed to escape alive, the report added.
One of the victims who had answered Zhou’s ad, who came from the central province of Henan, lied to his wife by telling her he had found a job in Changsha.
He contacted her after arriving in the city but she received no further information until authorities called her to say they had found his body in a hotel room.
He’s not going to help you get out of bed on a Monday morning, but he’s a sexy beast and I wouldn’t mind cuddling up with him.