Cuddling on the
Wild Side

Don’t you hate it when your messenger bag breaks open and you’re left with just your laptop and 20+ ft of bondage rope. Well, now there’s a solution for you so you can just trash the bag and go on with your day.

Thanks to Derek Da Silva for this.

As a follow-up to Black Friday’s deals, some of which are still going on including the 25% off at Fleshjack with coupon code BLACK, some filthy, dirty stores are having Cyber Monday sales.

665 Leather
20% off purchase and free shipping with coupon code cyber
Thru Nov 29th at 9pm PST

Square Peg Toys
20% off price. Free shipping with $300+ purchase after discount
Today only
I’ve never bought anything from them, but they have a good reputation for being quality toys. (Thanks to the person that sent this in)

Str8cam Lube
Save 10% off with promo code cybermonday and some freebies
Great lube in a pump bottle. Looks just like cum and doesn’t dry very quickly. I use mine with my Fleshjack.

If you know of any other deals, please email me.

Don’t try. Do.

To many people just "try" or are even too afraid to try because they’ll make mistakes. I do what I do and I do it the best I can. If i make a mistake, I learn from it and move on.

Ask me anything

Merry Christmas! Pic by Rough Gods

Buy something fun for yourself this Black Friday. Lots of stores and studios are having deals starting today.

Sponsor Sites*

Fleshjack
25% off with coupon code Black
Nov 26-29
Also check my recent post/video on how to clean a Fleshjack

JT Stockroom
Black Friday Sale (Nov 26-30) It appears items only appear until they sell out. So check back frequently with this link.
Stuff It Sale (Until Nov 29)

Other Sites

665 Leather
Thru Nov 28th

Hot House
Buy 2 months and get 1 month free
Thru Nov 29th

Mr S Leather
Free Shipping on orders of $49
Thru Dec 19th

Recon Store
Free Shipping
Thru Monday

If you know of any deals not on this list, email them to me.

* Sponsor sites give me a percentage of their sales when you use these links to purchase any items. Even after these deals are over. Please help me by using these link. They are products/stores I support and have had good experiences with.

Starting on Black Friday and going through Nov 29th, Fleshjack is having a 25% off deal with coupon code Black. It would make a good gift for a lover or just a friend. I have 2 Fleshjacks and love them, but I’ll frequently get questions about “how do I clean them?” So I decided to make a video of it.

A couple post-video comments:

• Fleshjack does make an anti-bacterial spray you can used with your Fleshjack. It’s called Fleshwash. You can find it on the Fleshjack site under Lube and Care. While this will help clean your Fleshjack, it still won’t kill all STDs like HIV. I think this is overkill.
• If you do want to share a Fleshjack, the best thing to do is use a condom with it.
• The Fleshjack will get sticky after a while. It’s just the nature of the material. Throw it in a bag with corn starch and shake it up. That will prevent it from sticking to everything. You will likely have some goop on your cock the next time you use it though.

The links in here are part of a referral program (ie – I get a little kickback on each purchase). Fleshjack is a product I very much enjoy and that’s the only reason I’m supporting it. Please help support this blog by using these links if you or a friend purchases a Fleshjack.

“Darkest” would imply that there is something evil, dark, bad, taboo about sex. Which is not the case. Sex is meant to be enjoyed however that happens in a consensual way. Maybe I want to choke, cut, rape, beat my boyfriend, but none of that is “dark”, it’s just enjoyable for both of us.

Ask me anything

I want to get a list of people’s favorite toys and/or places to get them. I’m not talking responses like, “I like floggers.” I want more of, “I recommend the 12″ deer skin flogger from Mr Mike’s store because it works well for these reasons… (with link)”.

Feel free to either post a comment on this post, or email me. I’ll compile a list, add my favorites and favorites of friends and put it out there for you. Also, if you have anything that you’ve used and would strongly not recommend, let me know too.

I’ll do a later post on gear/clothing/etc.

So, I know it’s been a while since I’ve blogged, but I didn’t realize it’s been 4 months since I did a real, thoughtful post. Not just some pictures or some other fluff. If you check my last real post, you may be able to figure out why I haven’t been blogging much.

Yup, I got a boyfriend. He’s an awesome guy that lives in Seattle WA. Since we initially met in Minneapolis, I’ve gone up there quite a few times, and we went on a trip to Washington DC to visit some of his friends from before he moved to Seattle. If you’re wanting pics, I posted them all at the bottom.

Not only is he amazing, but he’s my age and a kinky mother fucker. He actually has a lot more experience than I do. Partially because he started to get into everything when he was 18. I didn’t start till 5 yrs later when I was 23.

So, you’re probably like, “he’s in Seattle and you’re in Texas… WTF!” Well, I’m trying to move up to Seattle. I was done with Texas before I met him and now I have a great reason to leave. So, if you know of any graphic design and/or web/php developer positions in the Seattle area, please let me know.

Here’s what I’ve been up to other than chatting on the phone with my sexy beast:

• Enjoying my job, while still looking for one in Seattle
• Got a new 2011 Mustang
• Training my pup (4-legged) Diesel to behave better
• Working out
• Baking a lot
• Made and canned strawberry jam from scratch for the first time

Well, that’s it for now. I’ll do my best to post more. Send me an email if you have any topic suggestions, or just questions. Also, thank you to those that noticed I’d been gone and commented on it somewhere.