I’ve talked about this before, but ran across this on a friends blog. A lot of times S&M/kinky things can be viewed as abuse from an outsider, sometimes they actually are abuse. If you’re being abused by someone that says they love you, it’s not really love, and it won’t get better. Get away, and get help. Contact me if you ever need help getting away, even if we’ve never met before, I’ll help you somehow!