Recently I’ve been noticing in submissive/bottom guy’s profiles that they’ll post something like this:
Into: Watersports, toys, tt, cbt, spanking, rimming and bondage
NO BB. NO PAIN.
It’s impossible to do tt (tit torture) and cbt (cock and ball torture) without pain, as the last part is torture, and the same goes for spanking. Hell, even just regular sex will usually have some degree of pain involved for the bottom.
Usually once I start talking to these guys, they don’t really mean “no pain”; they usually just mean “no extreme pain” or that they want to have some control in the degree of pain. Both of which are totally understandable.
I love pain as a Dom. It’s not pain for the sake of pain. What I really love is the reactions from the sub. I love to watch them try to push through the pain, squirm, and just take it. I don’t truly enjoy it all that much when they just sit there stone-faced as I’m torturing them though.
It’s for these reasons I try to seek out true masochists. Ideally, I’d love to find a big, muscular, submissive, service-oriented pain pig, but until I find him and make him mine. I’ll just have to find other pain pigs to play with.