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Fringe Fetish: Nintendo Power Glove

WildCuddler — Sat, 20 Mar 2010 17:15:32 +0000

Yeah, you might want to read that twice, then gouge your eyes out because you’re afraid you might read it a 3rd time. Normally I don’t post hetro stuff, but to be honest this is barely hetro. A co-worker of mine sent me this because he knew I’d thoroughly enjoy it and I thought y’all might too.

With a lot of fetishes I can usually wrap my brain around why someone might find something appealing, but not this one. Maybe the glove provides a detachment from the person jacking him off?

You know, it really doesn’t matter what gets someone off, as long as they and all participating people consent to it. It’s all good! Keep that in mind…

Fringe Fetish: Santa Claus

WildCuddler — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 16:00:56 +0000

Want a bear to come over and fulfill my Santa Claus fetish, come over to cum over. I am in shape latino, hit me up for details and to trade pics, can host, looking for soon.

[Source: Craigs List ad]

As with half the things I put in the Fringe Fetish category, I don’t quite understand them, but find what you like and have fun.

So, after I read the ad and did my “Really???” My next thought was, “What could possibly make a Santa hot and sexy?”

I can understand why people would like bears, and maybe even fuzzy coats like Santa wears, but specifically Santa. I have no clue.

Please enlighten me if you might have any ideas.

Foot Fuck in 3D

WildCuddler — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 18:48:38 +0000

Got this from Dirty Boot Dog on Twitter. Fucking love it! Related posts:Twitter: “I’m slim and not a jock, but love to be used” – Then why the fuck are you messaging me. Don’t waste my time. Twitter: So, I’ve discovered that the word “date” gets me nervous as fuck… “hookup”, “sex”, “fucking”, etc… not [...] Related posts:

Death Rack

WildCuddler — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 20:01:08 +0000

There’s some danger in everything we do from walking across the street to eating breakfast. There’s also some things that are much more dangerous than others such as being a test pilot versus having a desk job.

This is just the same when having sex. There can be very “traditional” vanilla sex to wild and kinky sex using knives and blood everywhere. It’s just a matter of knowing what you’re doing and how to do things safely and sanely, but just like walking across the street – no amount of planning can account for freak occurrences.

The facts aren’t entirely clear, but recently David Carradine, star in Kill Bill and other films died from what appears to be auto-erotic asphyxiation. You could probably take the words apart and figure out what it means, but essentially it’s cutting of your own airflow to enhance an orgasm. I put this in the Fringe Fetish category because it’s one of the more rare fetishes, but it not quite as rare as a balloon fetish (at least I don’t think it is). Auto-erotic asphyxiation is something you’d definitely want to be extremely careful with if you ever try. I would even highly recommend having someone with medical experience in the room just in case.

No one wants to talk about erotic asphyxiation, auto (self-induced) or otherwise. It’s generally thought of as the kind of sex you have if you want to die. Or get damn close to it. But people do it: estimates in the US put the death rate for erotic asphyxia at upwards of 1000 people a year. According to the Metropolitan Life Insurance Company, around 250 of its policyholders die from sexual asphyxia each year.

It’s a sexual practice that ranges from what practitioners call “breath play” to full on “RACK”, an acronym for Risk Aware Consensual Kink. I guess it’s named such hoping that the people doing it are aware of all the risks they’re taking, and even though they’re gonna do it anyway, are making a choice that involves consent. Consent is the ability to choose the experience that is appropriate for you, the individual, the ability to understand what you are consenting to, and the power to say no. The opposite of shame — like hiding it from your lover, wife, husband or seriously tolerant kink-aware community who know that you’re aware of the risks and want to do it anyway, and who want you to stay alive even if they don’t support the sexual activity you’re into. [source]

I don’t truly like the idea of RACK because it’s nearly impossible to know all the risks that could be involved with many of these things. Also, most things could fall into a RACK category from nip play to whipping. Part of why I do my blog is to educate as much as possible on what SOME of the risks involved are. It’s impossible for me know present all of them, but a lot of times you just have to use the not so common, common sense.

It’s kind of like a game of Russian Roulette. Your chances of living are pretty good if there is only one bullet, but that doesn’t mean you’ll live. Different kink activities put different amounts of bullets in the revolver for a kinky game of Russian Roulette. Please, in whatever you do, even just going over to a guy’s house for a hook-up, be careful and take as many precautions as you can. You can never predict everything that MAY happen, but you can try and make everything as safe as possible. You also have to be consistent in the precautions you take. It’s likely that time you’re just a little lazy that something will go wrong. If you can’t put forth your whole effort, don’t put forth any.

Shitting Like Cats and Dogs

WildCuddler — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 13:48:44 +0000

How many of you have been over at a guys house, he asks you to lay on the ground, then he takes a big shit on you?

No… not you?

Well, yes. Some people are into it, but I’ve never done it. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be aware the precautions in case you are interested in exploring it or if you have a friend looking for some advice.

Shit play encompasses a ‘Brown Rainbow’ of sexual desire. Some scat players are only into the visual aspects, such as watching someone take a dump or looking at an unflushed toilet while aroused. Many are into smearing shit on their bodies. Some like to eat shit. Still others are into ‘Farming’ or gathering shit from public toilets. For most it is probably some combination of these activities. [source]

As with any situation, always take the basic precautions – protection and the (not so common) common sense. Basic precautions in this case could include gloves and possibly a dental dam.

Some other things to know is that scat is that it can transmit HIV and other STIs just like you can with blood. There are some other diseases you can get from scat that you can’t get from a nice juicy white load. Those include include e-coli, Hepatitis A, B and C. So, it’s best if you can get the Hepatitis vaccine if you plan to really get into this. Some of these things can kill you, but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy this.

There is much more to this than just the precautions, but it’s a place to start. If you have any experience with this, or any questions please let me know.

Hanky color Brown

Fringe Fetish: 99 Luftballons

WildCuddler — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 01:10:17 +0000

I am starting a new series called Fringe Fetishes. These are going to be things that are even on the outside of the many crazy fetishes I know about. These are going to mostly be things that I have no clue how you would find someone else into them. Remember though, these people are not freaks. They are just into some of the more unusual things. So embrace the kink culture and the diversity within it. If you run across any other Fringe Fetishes, shoot me an email.

I’m going to begin this series with a Craigs List ad that @myriadian on Twitter came across.

any balloon fetish guy on the area?

Reply to: pers-1021552232@craigslist.org ^[?]
Date: 2009-02-05, 1:20AM EST

here latino with balloon fetish ,looking for similar,we can make a group in dc area contact me with your pics and experience with balloons,we can meet to blow up big balloons together and more.

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