I’m trying to build up my blog list, especially if there are any kink-related blogs. Post me a comment with a link to your blog and any blogs you think I should check out.
Thanks!
The Cuddler
I was reading a post on one of my Twitter friend’s blog, and it spurred this post. It’s not a secret, I’m on quite a few websites out there. I’m not going to tell you which ones, but I’m sure you could find me pretty easily if you really wanted too.
Gooster mentions Bear411, in his blog and he has had a fairly different experience there than I have for the most part. I would say that 90-95% of the messages that I receive fall into the “You’re hot” category. Those messages will evoke a couple different responses from me:
The best way to get me to respond is to ask me a question that requires more than a one word answer. Fuck, just ask me a question at all and that’ll improve your chances. I will almost always respond even if I’m not interested. If you’re local, I may even meet up with you if I’m not attracted to you. Just be weary that I will be honest if you ask me if you’re my type. I try not to lie about it, you’re the one that asked. If you have any suggestions on sending effective messages, please let me know.
The other part of Gooster’s post was friends vs hook-ups. It’s very rare I’m looking for just a hook-up. I would greatly prefer to be friends over strictly fuck buds with most guys I meet. When I go to meet any person, I meet them with the plan to become friends. If fucking happens, that’s usually just a bonus, and rarely does it happen again. Not very sure why.
The bottom line is… If you’re attractive (in my eyes) and you message me, there is a very good chance I’ll respond and you better too. If not, I hope you’re fine with just being friends.