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Research: Watersports and Gas Masks

WildCuddler — Sun, 03 May 2009 18:15:56 +0000

I’ve had a couple questions for the Whipping Post, and while I wish I knew everything kink related, I’m still learning. Also, everyone has a different opinion of what they like about different thing.

If you have any knowledge/experience with either of the following, please share via the comments or email. I just put some questions that might help me write about the subjects, but please feel free to share any insight on the 2 topics.

Watersports/Piss play
What’s hot about topping and/or bottoming for it?
Are there only certain times you’ll do watersports stuff?
What safety concerns are there?

Gas Masks
Do you prefer to wear or put them on someone? Why?
Why do you like using gas masks?
Do you prefer to use a gas mask because you can easily use poppers with it?
Do you enjoy the dehumanizing/depersonalization factor of gas masks?
What safety concerns are there?

Please sure your knowledge with me and everyone. I’ll consolidate what I find into a couple Whipping Post entries. Also, if you have any kink/fetish questions for the Whipping Post, email me.

Vegans, Watersports and Sex

Whipping Post: Pop Goes the Butt Plug

WildCuddler — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 22:13:37 +0000

If I’m wearing a butt plug on an airplane is there danger of it popping out due to the pressure changes?
No. The only way I could possibly see something like this being a danger would be if the butt plug was unbelievably large and your ass was unbelievably tight. Otherwise, your ass is stretchy enough that any air will slowly seep out, like a slow fart.

Obviously you are going to want to avoid any metal toys, whether cock rings or butt plugs. It’s just not worth the hassle or investigation when going through security. And if you’re having hot airport security fantasies, I don’t think they’ll get fulfilled the way you want them.

Remember, if you have any questions about anything sex/kink related, shoot me an email. Also, check out other Whipping Post questions.

Whipping Post: Breaking Through for the First Time

WildCuddler — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 21:20:42 +0000

I’m an experienced fister, but have never been fisted myself. Should I allow myself to initiate an unfisted bottom? (1/25/2009)
Just like anything else you’re going to try in the kink-realm – go for it, but do it smartly.

If you have some friends that have broken in a fist bottom, talk to them. They can give you the best advice there. They might even be able to be there when you do it if everyone agrees. My advice for starting is to just take it slow and realize you probably won’t reach the goal the first time, or even first few times.
Make sure the bottom knows that you are experienced, but have just never broken someone in before. It’s going to be new for both of you. Make sure he realizes it’s not something that happens overnight.
It would be best if it’s someone you’ve played with before, so that you know how to read them and their reactions to what you are doing.
I always advocate for avoiding drugs, and even be careful using poppers you are not familiar with. The aerosole poppers can be especially dangerous.
Before things begin, talk through the steps of what you plan to do and how things should probably feel.

As with all things, communication is the key. Make sure it’s open two-way communication. (That means no gags at first…)

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UPDATE: Check out the comments for some great advice frome Moby.