Last weekend I finally got a hunter green hanky. I’ve had a black one that I’ll frequently wear, but there is more to me than just black. If you’re not familiar with the hanky code, black is for (heavy) S&M and green is for Daddy/boy.
Hankies are a way of showing what you are looking for and also who you are. I’m a sadist, I enjoy watching people in pain for sexual pleasure at my hands (or tools). This is something I’ve never denied and those that know me in person know I’m a sadist.
As the name of this blog says, I’m a cuddler too. I like to nurture and push the subs that I play with, both in the dungeon and in their daily life. I can be strict, but I will help a sub along on their journey. I like to take care of them and push them to achieve their potential, just as any Daddy would.
It makes me proud to see a boy grow and succeed, such as my boy who moved to SF over the summer. He’s on his feet and doing very well. And knowing that he made the tough move and is succeeding, makes me very happy and proud.
As for the name “Daddy”, it’s something that my first BF called me and not a name I have a problem with, but right now I still prefer that a boy of mine address me as “Sir”. That will change with time and with the specific boy I’m with, but it’s where I’m at right now.