Cuddling on the
Wild Side

I put myself out there and let you guys ask me any question you wanted, and I’d answer it honestly. You can still ask me anything too.

This is part 1, look for more parts coming soon.

Note: I think that answered your questions. If not, ask something more specific.

Do you ever bottom or are you only a top? If you never bottom, why not?

I lean towards top, but I wouldn’t really say I’m a top. I tell people I’m a top because trying to explain that you can have sex without fucking is just too much work. I actually don’t fuck too much. I mostly just like to be Dominant.

It’s been almost 2 years since I’ve bottomed. When I first started having sex 3 years ago, I was pretty much only a bottom because guys like my beefy, bubble butt. And really, it doesn’t take that much work to bottom. I’ve learned more about what I like since then, and getting fucked doesn’t really do much for me. If I found the perfect guy that was a Dom top, I’d probably fall into the sub/bottom role, but it’s not something I’m looking for and I’m not sure the guy exists.

Do you consider yourself sexy or average? What is do you consider your best physical attribute?

Fuck yeah I consider myself sexy. I work hard at the gym, try to eat healthy and don’t do drugs or drink to take care of myself and body. To be honest though, it’s self-confidence that makes me feel sexy. Am I perfection I can achieve… hell no, but I’m happy with my body how it is, and I know what I what to do next to get me where I want to be some day.

As for my best physical attribute, I’d say it’s my legs/ass. I never actually realized I had big legs and a nice bubble butt till I started going to gay bars and people told me. So, pretty much I was ignorant of my nice legs/ass I got from lucky genetics.

What fascinates you most about men?

The one thing that I really love about men, as regular followers probably know, is nice thick muscle. I love the way it looks on a guy. I don’t know exactly what it is, maybe it’s the masculinity,  just the solidness, or the idea that someone like that offers a sense of protection. After that, I love a nice fuzzy submissive guy that likes it real rough.

Do you have a favorite city you would like to live or visit?

One of my favorite cities so far is San Francisco. I think I could definitely see myself living there some time. It’s a city filled with masculine, kinky men. How could I not love that? Chicago is another city I’ve been to I could see myself possibly living in, but I grew up in Minneapolis and don’t want to go back to the cold right now.

There are a couple cities I haven’t been to and really want to. On my list are currently, Las Vegas, New York, and Ft Lauderdale/Miami. Luckily I’ll be going to Vegas in Jan with some amazing friends. No plans right now to do NYC or FtL, but hopefully soon.

If you’re looking for a dirty, nasty, sex-filled post, you better stop reading now. I’m still going to be in SF for one more night, but staying with a friend (thanks Buck/PC) in SSF and I don’t think it’s going to be sex-filled.

 

I shared the weekend with my good friend Shane from Dallas. He used to live in Austin, but ran away. We went down to the Castro and grabbed some dinner at Firewood. It’s a decent place and almost every SF local will mention it for dinner in the Castro. After dinner we met up with Buck, PC and some of their friends at 440/Daddies to relax and catch up.

After a quick costume change back in our hotel, the Carriage Inn (very nice hotel – I’d recommend it), we headed to Chaps II because the line for Powerhouse was like 2 blocks long. I might have made out with a couple guys and gotten my cock sucked a little, but still just went back to the hotel with my friend Shane.

Saturday included breakfast at Mel’s Dinner, then I went off the the BigMuscle(Bears) party. It’s my favorite party of the weekend usually because it’s in the afternoon, people haven’t gotten high on the drugs yet, and there are tons of hot guys that are nice. I met Andy, one of the owners of BM/BMB. He was very nice.

I also did meet a nice little kinky muscle stud at the party that I brought back to my hotel. We played around a bit, but it was cut short because my roommate came back to the room. He was a really nice guy too. If I lived in SF, I definitely would have enjoyed spending some more time with him. Luckily I did see him a couple more times throughout the weekend.

That night I went to Magnitude, which is split between a dance/circuit party and a sex party. It was alright, but people weren’t very friendly. I actually found the same was true of the Real Bad party Sunday night. People seemed to be very focused on their friends, or getting some sex. There was no room to meet new people.

People at the Folsom Street Fair on Sunday were very friendly though. It was a great time, filled with so many friends from all around the world, and also some space to meet new friends. There’s always the freaks out there wearing something crazy, but it’s what makes Folsom fun, and we’re all crazy in our own way.

I didn’t see too much naughty stuff going on, maybe some cock sucking, but that’s it. There were also reports of a guy jacking off one of the roofs which I’ve seen in past years. The music on the different stages was pretty good this year. Normally there are some crazy bands that are only at Folsom because they’re gay, but this year was pretty good.

After the street fair and some food we went to the Real Bad party which I already mentioned. It’s pretty strictly a leather circuit party. There’s some fondling that goes on, but that’s about it. I only stayed a couple hours, then went back to the hotel and crashed.

Here we are at today… just chilling and relaxing after the weekend. Hung out with Moby and Shane most of the afternoon.

The whole weekend was nice. It was great to see so many people, including known and unknown followers of my blog and Twitter.

I’m going to be in San Fransisco for Folsom next Friday, September 25th till the 28th for the Folsom Street Fair. This will be my 3rd Folsom, so let me know if you need any tips and let me know if you’re going to be there. Always love to meet other kinksters. I also plan to go to the Big Muscle party, the Magnitude party and the Real Bad party.

Shoot me an email or leave a comment if you’ll be there.

Here’s some pics from Folsom 2008.