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It sounds like you might be looking specifically for forums, and I don’t regularly read any like that. If you want to read more about it, check out some of the blogs I link to.
Another great option in a fairly public forum that can provide great opportunities, but still limit is to use Twitter. It’s a great place to find kinky guys and ask them questions. Feel free to start looking through my friends list for some. If you’re solely looking for information and not to hook-up Twitter can be especially good, but make sure you don’t avoid guys then because they don’t match your ideal type.
Some good places to find kinky guys to chat with and possibly hook-up with are Recon and FetishMen. FetishMen is a more recent site to come up. It is setup with more of a Facebook feel and has some great chat rooms. Also, if you have suggestions just use the contact/support link and hopefully they can help you out quickly. Recon is another site that has been around a bit longer and has a larger user-base. They recently did cut their chat rooms and their site has been lacking updates recently, but there are some knowledgeable guys there.
Those are some good places to start and maybe some readers can leave some comments with suggestions they have too.