Cuddling on the Wild Side » Pics

Yup, I’m Still Alive

WildCuddler — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 03:43:03 +0000

So, I know it’s been a while since I’ve blogged, but I didn’t realize it’s been 4 months since I did a real, thoughtful post. Not just some pictures or some other fluff. If you check my last real post, you may be able to figure out why I haven’t been blogging much.

Yup, I got a boyfriend. He’s an awesome guy that lives in Seattle WA. Since we initially met in Minneapolis, I’ve gone up there quite a few times, and we went on a trip to Washington DC to visit some of his friends from before he moved to Seattle. If you’re wanting pics, I posted them all at the bottom.

Not only is he amazing, but he’s my age and a kinky mother fucker. He actually has a lot more experience than I do. Partially because he started to get into everything when he was 18. I didn’t start till 5 yrs later when I was 23.

So, you’re probably like, “he’s in Seattle and you’re in Texas… WTF!” Well, I’m trying to move up to Seattle. I was done with Texas before I met him and now I have a great reason to leave. So, if you know of any graphic design and/or web/php developer positions in the Seattle area, please let me know.

Here’s what I’ve been up to other than chatting on the phone with my sexy beast:

Enjoying my job, while still looking for one in Seattle
Got a new 2011 Mustang
Training my pup (4-legged) Diesel to behave better
Working out
Baking a lot
Made and canned strawberry jam from scratch for the first time

Well, that’s it for now. I’ll do my best to post more. Send me an email if you have any topic suggestions, or just questions. Also, thank you to those that noticed I’d been gone and commented on it somewhere.

Life Update: Single in Seattle

Optimize Your Profile & Responses

WildCuddler — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 15:35:20 +0000

Looking to meet people online, but not getting the amount of responses you want? There is one simple way to just that… post a better picture and check out my guide to profile writing.

The site that did this analysis is a straight-oriented site, but I have a feeling it’s not that much different for gays.

Similarly, OKCupid found that photos posted by your typical meathead are pretty successful among women as well. With an overall average just below 6 women met per 10 attempts, men who posted photos without their shirts on met almost 9 women—an average only bested by photos taken with an animal. The site warns, however, that the entertainment value of a half naked man only lasts for so long; as a guy gets older, he’s less likely to get a response out of women with such a picture.

[Source]

So it sounds like if you want to get the most traffic to your profile, you should post a shirtless picture of you with an animal. Your own animal would be best.

And if you feel like people never respond to your messages that you send out, you really shouldn’t. You have a better chance of getting a winning hand in blackjack than having someone respond.

According to OKCupid, the average chance that any message will lead to a back-and-forth discussion is at about 27 percent, but a photo of a person doing something interesting (say, playing an instrument, playing a sport, crafting something, etc.) is much higher at a hair over 40 percent. Second to that is posing with an animal (hey, people like animals, okay?) at about 37 percent, while a travel photo sits at just over 30 percent. The categories that are below average for conversations are cleavage shots, MySpace angles, having fun with friends, and most dooming of all, photos of the subject drinking.

[Source]

#CommandoFriday Pics – November 20 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:15:52 +0000

Hope you enjoy today’s Commando Friday pics. Check back throughout the day and next week. As more people post them, they will automatically appear here. This will post any pics that have been posted with the #commandofriday tag on twitter. Also check out CommandoFriday on Twitter. Let me know if you have any other requests/suggestions.

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – November 13 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 16:15:11 +0000

Check back throughout the day and next week. As more people post them, they will automatically appear here. This will post any pics that have been posted with the #commandofriday tag on twitter. Also check out CommandoFriday on Twitter. Let me know if you have any other requests/suggestions.

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – November 6 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:51:01 +0000

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

Halloween Edition #CommandoFriday Pics – October 30 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 15:21:24 +0000

Let’s see some of you boys going commando in your Halloween costumes.

Also, check out the most recent poll about hooking up and finding dates.

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – October 23 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 15:06:09 +0000

Also, check out the most recent poll about hooking up and finding dates.

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – October 16 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 20:40:14 +0000

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – October 9 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 16:28:03 +0000

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – October 2 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 15:29:58 +0000

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – September 18 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 22:33:36 +0000

Check back throughout the day and next week. As more people post them, they will automatically appear here. This will post any pics that have been posted with the #commandofriday tag on twitter and use TwitPic or yFrog. Also check out CommandoFriday on Twitter. Let me know if you have any other requests/suggestions.

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – September 11 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 17:55:33 +0000

Check back throughout the day and next week. As more people post them, they will automatically appear here. This will post any pics that have been posted with the #commandofriday tag on twitter and use TwitPic or yFrog. Also check out CommandoFriday on Twitter. Let me know if you have any other requests/suggestions.

Pics after the jump…

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – September 4 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 15:16:58 +0000

Check back throughout the day and next week. As more people post them, they will automatically appear here. This will post any pics that have been posted with the #commandofriday tag on twitter and use TwitPic or yFrog. Also check out CommandoFriday on Twitter. Let me know if you have any other requests/suggestions.

Pics after the jump…

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

#CommandoFriday Pics – August 28 (NSFW)

WildCuddler — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 15:01:35 +0000

Check back throughout the day and next week. As more people post them, they will automatically appear here. This will post any pics that have been posted with the #commandofriday tag on twitter and use TwitPic or yFrog. Also check out CommandoFriday on Twitter. Let me know if you have any other requests/suggestions.

Pics after the jump…

View the archive of all #CommandoFriday pics

Pics: Dungeon Slave Candidates – Group 1

WildCuddler — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 15:02:28 +0000

I wouldn’t mind any of these boys tied up in my dungeon right now.