If you’ve read my blog much, you may know that I’m not going to actually tell you how to be submissive, but I did want to take the opportunity to talk about submission, what it is, and what it isn’t.
Many people have a perception of the Dom/sub world especially when they are first entering it. Being submissive does not mean that you’re some fem, pussy, push-over bitch. While you could be that if that’s what you desire and that’s what’s in you, that is not what you have to be.
I personally prefer a sub that is masculine, assertive, aggressive and strong – both physically and mentally. I want a guy that is submissive to me. I don’t expect him to be submissive to anyone else unless I ask him to be.
There are all kinds of submissives from the alpha subs to the ones that want to be worthless, scum faggots to ones that strive to please and serve at all costs. If you’re a sub, you can fall anywhere in this spectrum and many other spectrums. Be who you are and you’ll find your match. The main key to be submissive is when you find someone you’re comfortable with and trust, give yourself to them.